One Sided Story
By Vic on Jan 31, 2008 in Blogger Unleashed
As you folks know the last week has just turned into a nightmare after the server for Blogging Zoom and BU was trashed. We have worked over 20 hours a day trying not only to restore the services but also I have had to restore over 40 personal sites that where on the same server.
As you folks know for the longest time I believed that bloggers where self centered bitches. Today I can say that the problem is a few apples that as always hurt the rest.
The last few days not only has BZ got attacked but I have taken the large amount of it because of the actions taken to assure the best possible outcome for the majority of the community. Today I was emailed a thread that was started at Blog Catalog again attacking BZ and me.
The thread is called Trying To Get My URL Banned On Blogging Zoom as you can see again for reasons I just do not understand the ones that are whining are the ones that make 3 or 4 submissions and then never supported any other blogger of the community. Please go to the thread and let other bloggers know that they do not represent the whole story.

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No way I would log on to that mess! Log on? …to comment? How can she possibly be upset with a free site? Either you take advantage and follow the rules or take a hike. I can’t imagine complaining about something that can help ya. Save your time, just decide if its good or not, move on!
Vic - keep up the weird writing. You won’t be on the cover of BEST ENGLISH MONTHLY, but you will be on the front page of BLOG HELPER MONTHLY. Which would you rather have?
Thank you so much you know how many times I have had to try to understand a Google translation from a russin site because it was the only one that had the answer to my problem.
I have never had any intentions of becoming an award winning writer I have even though of making videos to give you folks the info I am just slammed but again thank you so much.
Vic,
Well, I never did join BlogCatalog so I tried joining but I guess you can’t comment until your blog is approved and that takes 24-48 hours and this discussion will probably fizzle out by then. Sorry, I tried.
Everyone who has BlogCatalog needs to go read through these comments because the people writing them seem like a little click and we need to get some support for Vic in there. If BZ has brought you even 1 extra visitor you owe it to Vic and yourself to defend the site.
Thank you Rookie. The thing that really gets me is that the intention behind everything we do is to help I do not know maybe I should become another hypocrite A-lister and have all my writing copy proofed and just dedicate myself to sell stuff that hurts bloggers and write stuff that helps know one but myself.
Again Rook thank you so much.
I left a comment, tried to give a balanced view. People just get so worked up about stuff that really doesn’t matter. They probably don’t even get that angry when they see images of children with limbs blown off.
April
April bless you. I even wrote in that thread about that. Why not spend time getting links and promoting your blog instead of wasting time on this the same time the Blogger took to writ all that stuff was maybe one tenth of what it would take him to make a 350 character blurp.
April you know m,aybe none of this people have had to sleep in there cars or not have food for a wek like me, my priorities are some where else.
Again April thank you so much for your support and Bless You.
Wow. I’ve signed up for an account over there so I can leave my two cents worth. Apparently my blog has to be “approved” before I have freedom of speech.
Anyway, here’s the bottom line…as I see it. The guys (and gals) that posted over there on that thread seem like nice enough folks and that they are really interested in blogging for blogging’s sake…not for making a living. That’s fine, to each his own. Want proof? How about all the time, effort, and keystrokes that went into bashing you for bad grammar and abrupt communication? I know why you don’t spend time fixing the grammar…and they would too if they read BU…so obviously they don’t. And as for the “communication style”, as far as I’m concerned it just keeps the wimps out of our hair.
I agree, most of that is just whiny dribble, and (perhaps ironically) almost all the posts are over 350 characters! Point in case, crkian says, “…I moaned about the 350 characters , I have problems writing that many for my blog…” and goes on to explain what a problem it is for him, and uses 507 to do it!
If they don’t want to use BZ, then fine, we’re better off without them. Let ‘em go. Don’t spend any more mental energy in a battle of wits with unarmed people!
While I like having friends and enjoy it when we all lock elbows and sing Kum ba ya around the campfire, I’m not really here for that. I’m here to increase my earning potential online with blogging.
Ok, so that was 25 cents… sorry.
You know I actually had wrote I rather have 5k of you folks then 5 million bloggers that all they think about is themselves. Thank you so much for your support and what you wrote all is so true.
A wit war with no ammo……love it!
I love the kumbaya bit.
I can just see us all getting into it.
I wrote a comment about how and why I use Bloggingzoom. I think their biggest problem is that they’re thinking that it’s a Digg type site, when it’s actually not. Sure it might look the same, but the best part about BZ is that you get that extra TARGETED submission to the search engines. If they actually took the time to understand it instead of railing about having to write a 350 WORD, er, I mean, character submission they would have a better time of it.
BTW Vic, don’t change, ever. May have to pound you if you do
What a load of bollocks. Those people are up their own arses big time.
And what a fu(delete)g b(delete)h LMFAO!!!
Its THAN Vic, THAN, THAN, THAN, THAN, fucking THAN hahahahaha!!!
Let ‘em rot in their own ignorance and don’t waste your time on their petty squabbling Vic, you’ve got better things to do and money to make (which I bet that lot are NOT doing)!
Watch out Terry, Madam X just spanked you because you’ve only written twice in the BC forums. I think this was probably my only time, but I honestly don’t remember.
Yeah I just saw and wrote her one back. I wish I’d seen Vis’s deleted comment - he must have called her a puta coña or something and I would have fallen over laughing!
No use in trying to beat these pathetic cliques, they close ranks and you don’t stand a chance. Let ‘em get on with their petty bickering I’m sure it earns them a lot of money LMFAO!
Here’s where the real people are!
Alright Terry since she told my French was better then my English to go to Canada to start a blog.
So I answered:
Est-ce important dans quelle langue je parle à vous une chienne sera toujours une chienne, quelle que soit la langue.
Which would roughly translate to:
Does it matter what language I talk to you a bitch will always be a bitch no matter what language.
LMAO
Desty read below what was said I said the she got all really pisst and reported to blog catalog.
Yeah after reading you guys comments here it is not worth it losers will be losers. Thanks Terry
Vic,
I read the long and windy post about all of the stuff going down. I was thinking of posting there as my site was accepted by BC, but I didn’t want to get into that mess over there. Sometimes you can’t win with people.
So, here is my take on it. If BC wants to remove my site, that’s fine. If you don’t like what I have to say, that’s great also. You are entitled to your opinion, just like I am.
Vic, don’t change the rules! Just because a few people can’t follow them, don’t mess it up for the rest of us. Here’s my why:
I have two sites right now in the sandbox. I continue to write articles on them and build backlinks through article submissions sites.
BloggingZoom is perfect for this scenario. Even though BZ is also in the sandbox, when I type in my keywords for these two sites, my site doesn’t show up, anywhere. Guess what does?
BloggingZoom.
Yep, the keyword rich submissions I make to BZ show up “for” my site, even though my site is nowhere to be found in the SERPS.
BZ is perfect for this. Sure, it takes an extra minute to make a good submission here. But, if you aren’t happy with having to do that extra work to increase your SERP position, or promote your site, then maybe Digg is the place for you. I know they allow cut and paste operations.
Vic and Court - Thank you for all of the work you guys have done with this site. Keep up the good work here.
To the members of BZ that are following the rules: Thanks for your support of each other, and for following the rules.
To the members of BZ that AREN’T following the 350 character, avoid duplicate content penalty, submission rule, quite your bitching and whining. Each social site has it’s own rules. If you don’t follow them, you will get booted. Plain and Simple.
Don’t f*&k up something for the rest of us by bringing down the whole site with your lazyness.
Elliott thank you so much because of you folks is why I get so bent out of shape, all the things you folks do for the community. I swear if any of you whould had said shit Vic take a chill pill it would had not been a big deal but people complaining when they only submitted 4 articles and never supported another blogger it just pisses me off.
Again buddy TNX
Well, I just wasted 20 minutes of my life reading that crap.
I would comment on it in your defense but I don’t want to wait for my blog to get approved, and they don’t deserve anymore attention to that post anyway.
You make more money online then any of them will ever make added together. Actually all of us probably do, or will, thanks to all the free information you have given us.
Not to mention, those 5 or so people are nothing in comparison to the hundreds of people who support you and your sites.
Oh and since when was grammar so important again? I don’t remember the last time I saw any blog post, text message, email, or any other form of writing that had perfect grammar!
Anybody used one of these today… brb, lol, lmao, rofl, idk, gtg, ttyl, btw, ily, idc, tbh, l8r, qt, k, Y, 2nite, txt, gn?
Trent it just really got to me I do not know why, it just pisstme off some one that has no standing to be talking thrash but you folks are so cool and it just makes me say fuck it and move on.
Again Trent thank you do much.
Hey Vic,
I spent a few wasted minutes weeding through the muckity-muck in that discourse on BC, but couldn’t stand to continue reading all the whinin’ and weepin’. More Boo-Hoo-Waaaaah!
Vic, I wouldn’t get upset about a select few who want to get all worked into a tizzy about the email message sent out. I got one, and I needed to get one. I’m one of the “guilty” ones who have copied and pasted a sentence here and sentence there from my posts, not realizing it might cause google penalties for duplicate content. I needed to “get spanked” with that email, and I understand the intent within the message. Who friggin’ cares about some grammar errors, you rock man!
Just flip em the bird! I would! Oh I know, I’m soooo bad.
Thank you Lin I should had not paid attention but I just did not want people to think that we at BZ ban and delete users from left to right which is not true.
Again thank you Lin
I am sorry you were so upset Vic, truly! But I laughed my butt off through the whole comedy of errors.
Sorry I am not a member of BC either nor will I be. I have enough in my pocket already.
The way I looked at it is WOW BZ must be making a lot of waves! And any press is better than no press at all.
And as far as BZ, I get more front page listings for my blog posts through BZ than I do with anything else. I think its great!
I am not sure about the duplicate content issue but each to their own opinion. But I think it is great to be able to write a short 350 character blurb stuffed with keywords about your post. This is a perfect solution for getting listed on Google.
Anyway, I am not sure how many people are viewing the post at BC but don’t you think it will drive some new people to BZ and that is a bonus.
My grammar sucks also but that is why I am trying to make money with niche blogs cause I would suck as a freelancer.
Take care and remember “NO STRESS”
Denise
It just gets me how people want to be treated as little kids. But I need to not pay attention to it.
Hi Vic, I think what you are doing is great for the community.
Don’t get too upset about some “I speak perfect english” individuals. Communication is about getting your point across as efficient as possible. We are not built in with Word’s Grammer check or else we will have a wriggly green line underneath everytime we say something :).
Well, you know how the saying goes, “Don’t teach the pigs to sing, you are wasting your time and you annoy the pigs too”
Take care !
Tnx Alvin trust me lesson learned next time I just not pay attention to it.
Hey Vic I read the thing and honestly, while I know BZ is one of your pride and joys and you’re doing all you can to help, in this case it might have been in your best interest to ignore that troll and used your time on more productive stuff. I know what BZ is good for and I use it for that matter and if there are people who do not wish to do so and complain about it not working for them when they do not wish to spend just that little bit of extra effort to do so, then they can continue whining till they’re 50 and wonder why they achieved nothing with their lives half gone.
I did laugh when I saw another ‘professional writer’ in the thread who thought that just because she’s a ‘professional writer’, the whole world has to regard her as an authority on whether whatever someone says is clear enough to be understood by all.
@YC - although I get why you think Vic should have ignored these idiots I think it would be very hard if I was in his shoes. Like you said, it is one of his pride and jos- if I am really passionate about something and someone talks shit about it I freak the hell out.
I understand perfectly, The Rookie. I would feel the same way, and I don’t expect Vic to react the same way I would myself but I have found personally they are never productive. I guess it’s just me because after being called names like faggot and asshole and dimwit etc continuously at one of my other sites, my hide has been beaten till it has grown thick and at the end of the day some might call me a whore cos I let people call me those names because they are paying me while doing it…
heh heh heh
Hi Vic,
Just forget about the whole childish fiasco. It’s not worth your time. I hate people who attack others whose English is not their first language. It’s not mine either, but hey, we still do reasonably well in expressing what we want to say and people understands. That should be credit enough.
Take it easy mate, you should be an old dog concerning and dealing with attacks like these.
Btw, when can I start submitting posts from Blog Gigs? It’s still “banned” LOL!!
Costa you are right, buddy the dev team is trying to figure out what the deal with your URl is trust me buddy we have not forgot we are just trying to find why it is happening.
Vic, you should just ignore people that bash you like that, because the 1 end result you get from it is to lose traction. Instead of letting a few people who weren’t going to be on your side in the first place slag you, you get mad and the unprofessional side comes out.
I very much enjoy your writing here and what you’re doing with BZ, but when you let go and start bashing people (even if they are wrong) not only do your naysayers have a point, but you prove it for them. You play their game, and lose. Ignore them, keep doing the work and putting out the info, and let what they think go by the wayside. It’s no benefit for you to waste your time on something that the best you can hope for is only neutral, and the most probable result is negative. Just ignore them and it costs you nothing.
Robert you are right as the other folks who have made the same point. I lost way to much time dealing with the losers.
Hey Vic, if you write perfect english then I’m out of here. Stay as you are. As for whiners, they are dime a dozen. They don’t get much work done, they are just spanners in the works. I can’t go into BlogCatalog ‘cos I have never been a member of that gang.
LMAO thanks Markk I will do my best to keep doing my worst
Waw so much drama.
But it got me through another 10 minutes at work.
Yay for the internet!
LMAO Soap Opera Time
Hey Vic,
First off I’d like to give you a big hug! Like the other folks already said, don’t worry about all those idiots who try to burry you. As far as I’m concerned there are plenty of people worried by your appearance and now they are trying to shut you down one way or another.
They are all losers since they have nothing better to do than wingeing about rules THEY DIDN’T follow in the first place.
Don’t go an wash somebody else’s dirty dishes, let them rot in hell and move on with your money empire! You know that we all love you, every single person who has commented here and is a regular is 100% supportive of you!
Please do never forget this.
Thank you Monika I just need to learn to not pay attention. And move on.
Sorry Vic, I was going to add my 2c to that and then noticed my little sticky note pasted on my computer. It says “Ignore”. This reminds me not to bother with morons - so I didn’t. You know we all love ya and it’s their loss. C’est la vie and stay out of Canada - we have enough problems with French and English - no room for Vicalese here! lol.
LMAO yeah last night around 4am I said to my self what a dumb fuck if instead of wasting my time with those losers I would had spend the time doing what I was doign at 4am I would had gone to bed at 2am slept an extra two hours. Again what a dumb fuck.
I left my 2 cents over there, for all the good it will do
It’s kind of funny that they got so bent out of shape in the first place. I think all of us agree that we are at Blogger Unleashed because we get a kick out of straight talk and are sick of people with their fake niceness that covers up their selfish a$$es.
I am very happy with BZ and you guys have taught me a lot in just a month and a half. I owe you a lot for showing me how some of this stuff really works, so thanks for everthing. And don’t start trying to be politically correct.
Keep up the straight talk and write it however you want. I promise I won’t take it all personal and rant you out.Ok, so now we wasted all this time with a bunch of whiners. I gotta go get some $hit done.
LMAO yeah I should had not wasted my time either. You can not teach stupid it is what it is.
Vic, you’ve gotta do like I do and stay away from places like BC. I almost popped a blood vessel in my brain once because of something that happened over there.
I think differences in opinion are healthy, but the lonely people over there have driven more people away with their personal attacks than they’re willing to take responsibility for. I don’t use language like this very often but… fuck ‘em.
Yup I will never waste my time like that again. When people have nothing to do threads like that happen. I even feel bad about having you wonderful folks waste your time too.
Vic,
Screw those damned snobs. I really, really hate when people fuss about grammar. It just shows that they can’t think about anything else to bitch so they’ve got to nit-pick with that shit.
I still say that anyone who speaks in a language that isn’t their native is one up on anyone that speaks only one language perfectly. And there you showed that you not even speak one foreign (to you) language, but three (Eng. Fr. It.)- and you write in them too!
I consider myself a master of the English language, but who cares? You can write coherently in three languages not your own. That’s pretty fucking impressive, if you ask me.
P.S.
This comes from another professional writer (which only means that I’ve been paid for writing at some point in my miserable life) who doesn’t think too much of herself to be able to appreciate another’s intelligence regardless of their use of a language not their own.
Amen.
That bitch needs a serious hug and some sex did you notice she lives in that thread mmm way to much time in her hands. LMAO
Its also funny how she always has to have the last word on everything. I was going to write that but I didn’t want the Queen Bitch to get her cronies after me.
What killed me was when it was just her and her 3 bitches she was all tough then when you folks start writing she starts to complain how and why people are there commenting like this is not a fucking free world WTF to my knowledge the bitch does not pay for a private service or forum at BC what killed me was how the professional writer with the perfect grammar has no fucking traffic what so ever and probably barely making enough for rent. Dumb ignorant bitch LMAO
All I know is that she brags she’s got a law degree and a political science degree. I’m sorry, but I don’t know any attorneys that have that much time to play online (and still make the money). She’s got more than one blog, when does she find time for her clients?
P.S.S.
If you ever need someone to write a site wide communication with almost impeccable English grammar, give me a shout out. I’ll do it for you- free of charge (to begin with…lol). Then let that hag bitch about your professionalism.